I am valuable. I am lovable. I am a human being. THey are hollow. SAve yourselves and leave. HEllo kay, you are right, they are hollow; hollow empty souls. I told my oldest sister one day about 8 months ago that she was a sad empty soul. SHe looked angry and disordered and slammed door. I believe she has narcissistic temperament confusion. I unluckily had to move in w/her and my elderly mother for economical reasons. IT’s been almost 6 yrs. I’ve chased health issues, had surgeries, that have prevented me from working and moving back on my own. I will be moving soon working on plan she has bullied me and emotionally abused me and denies it. WE’ve had abominable arguments. I stand up for myself and tell her how i feel so she doesn’t like that which gets her angry. I’ve been scared. THen there’s this period where we won’t talk and avoid each other. I don’t see her much anyhow. THen she will start being “nice” to me, make small talk, and pretend everything ok. CYcle repeats. NOw i’ve gotten point where i don’t want to talk to her and get “hoovered” in as the that term says. IT’s hard when person is in house. SHe lies, does things intentionally to exasperate me, make me annoyed, even sick i get migraines from bouquets and smells, etc i am sick, so stressed i get migraines almost daily. SHe’s ascendant, cold, has no empathy, self empowered, and lacks remorse. SHe’s very cruel. WHat’s best way to detach when you still have to live with someone?LAst couple days i’ve been trying to not say one word and she keeps trying to talk to me. SHe’s guilty cause she left for a nice fancy holiday and left my mom and i here. WE don’t feel well enough to go anyhow, i don’t want go w/her but she goes lots places and does what she pleases. WE are stuck in house, no progress. SHe doesn’t give a crap. IT’s all about her.