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I feel cleared because i knew my relatives were fake and phony but didn’t have the correct words to define them. NOw i do. REcently cut ties with brother and i suspect they aren’t going away quietly. I’d like opinions from anyone that wants to give some, because relatives hung around our parents most of their lives up to their deaths, and now they are seeking me out because i’m the only quick family member left and they want 2 hang out. HAven’t seen my sister in 30 years, my brother on and off and i feel it is a little crazy why they can’t just live their lives on their own. I did and i loved not being close 2 them. I had my space. MY own space. LEast i have a backup if they show up at my doorstep unannounced. MY sister expects me not 2 smoke, drink or swear around her childs and you can bet i will do all three. MAybe even run around my home nude just to embarrass the heck out of her prudish ways. IT is very hard to like while you are going through the motions with these kinds of people, specially when you know nothing of the temperament chaos. A few things i learned from my encounter is…inquiry, enquiry, investigation the more you know the better and conscience you get. EVen if it takes a long time keep working at it you will have that aw hah moment when you know without a doubt she/he was a narc… all positions are not 100% alike but still you find a lot of commons to verify what you dealt with and what you will be up for if you return to them. GEt back to being oneself. – the whole time i was with my ex narc i was just trying to make him happy and forgot to make myself happy. THey are molding us the whole time you don’t realize it at the time but you are changeable. YOu are not the person you once were. YOu most likely will never be that person again but you can get pretty darn close. NEver give up and never give in to these people stick to the no contact. REmember time does heal a lot of things…give it time. IT has been 2 years for me now and just 2 days ago i sanctioned a follow request from him on instagram , he straight unfollowed me but, he i believe was just letting me know he’s still near and or wanted a reaction from me. I have been researching my conditions for months as i have never confronted anything like this in my life. WE were collectively for 5 years as far as our nuptial of 1 year. I knew our tie wasn’t right, but i couldn’t solve what was going on. I felt anxious all the time to make him happy and he still felt very distant to me.