ONe day he will give up i keep my answers minimal and my responds are brief and delayed to contain the environment. I’m desiring a ramped up notice when he ruins his current link. IM unsure as to whether my beau is a narcisist…. THere is always drama in his life and he takes no individual answerability for his poor choices. AT the start of our rship he pursued me mostly and showered me with gifts and greetings, almost putting me on a pedestal. HOwever as time went on, he has supervised quite controlling and. NEgative deportment, such as putting me down, shouting and making fun out of me. HE has a temper but has said he would never hit me!BUt moving blackmail is used and i can see through his lies and manipulation. WE have broken up several times, mostly from me putting my foot down and fussy he treats me better but he always manages to win me back with sob stories and compacts of changeable. IM just so disordered as hes so sweet and loving in some ways but very hurtful and selfish in others. IM no angel either but i try to deal with things maturely. DOes he sound like a narcisit and can he change?WOuld love some advice on this. YEs he is a narcissist and he will never change. IT’s a hard truth to accept,the harsh reality that they will never change. NArcissists are very good actors who trick you into believing that they can connect with you emotionally. THe truth us that they are ineffective of making an affecting association with anyone. I am a recovering daughters of a narcissistic mother. I was fooled for a long time inasmuch as i could change her, and considering that she truly cared about me. THe moment you make this identification, you will feel like a fool at first because it took so long to figure it out, but it is easy to fall into the narcissistic trap and no one should feel foolish for falling for it. THe best thing you can do for myself is to cut it off. I wish the very best for you!THis assigns my mom to a t. I haven’t been able to appreciate why she treats me this way. IT’s very confusing and hurtful. I’m in no contact with her right now and life is more serene without her. SHe is endeavoring to hoover again. I am a very deeply caring person and now i know she likes to feed off that.